Is it possible to forgive yourself for something terrible that happened in your past? I was once in a situation where I felt so bad about myself, my future and the entire world.

I thought I would never be able to forgive myself or move on with my life. But after intentionally growing my subconscious, everything changed. I learned how to change my mindset and step into the life of my dreams, in-spite of my failures. 

Do you remain depressed and disappointed without figuring out a way out of your current state? Or do you push yourself through self discipline? What do you do when you failed at something? How do you move past something terrible?

You might have found yourself in a situation in your life when you had great recognition and respect by others, because of your attitude and behavior. Then suddenly something happened that made you lose respect with people.

This kind of failure or mistake often put a pause and sometimes a stop on our dreams in life. It is natural to feel this way, because as humans we are designed to seek for rewards and avoid pain, so when we make a mistake, we register it in our minds as negative.

So, learning to let go of your past mistakes and failures by forgiving yourself is the only way you can move forward in life without any bad feelings towards yourself anymore. It will also help you find peace within yourself again after a big setback or failure.  

‘Mistakes and failures are bad' is a limiting belief.

Everything that happens to you and I starts in the mind, and whatever we plan and commit to God will happen, if we can be disciplined enough to take the required actions and stay focused.

Coaching is a process that will help take the burden of failure off your shoulders. The things that exist in the natural are created from a mind that visualized it.

For example the Wright Brothers created the first aircraft because they visualized the possibility in their minds. Similarly if you look around you will see modern technology created from the minds of creative people.

You can generate more options in your mind that has never been experienced in the world if you are determined and stay focused on what you want. So instead and focusing on your past and experience what else can you do?

Stop thinking, start acting.

The secret of coming out stronger is to stop thinking and start taking steps out of your dip. Rather than dwelling on the negative emotions you can choose to focus on one of your goals in life.

One of the best gift we have in life is to change our choice, based on what we belief in. You are responsible for how your life turns out, by controlling what you focus on.

What you consistently focus on will expand and become what you want to become. And instead of focusing on what people are saying and how people are looking at you, I want you to know that your past does not define your future.

Many people have allowed their past mistakes stop them from becoming their best self, and impacting the world. You must believe in yourself first, before others can believe in you. And you cant be rejected unless you reject your self first.

Our brains are designed to trust the neural networks that was built from our childhood, and without strategic planning it would be impossible to ignore them even when we know deep down that they are not leading us to our best life.

You built adaptations in growing up that you have held onto, because you believe they are truth. A person that does not intentionally learn, unlearn and relearn will continue to make the same mistakes when they fail.

Take a look at the patterns in your life, what do you often do, when you fail or make a mistakes. I can bet that it would be the same over and over again. Your likes and dislikes come from your childhood experiences.

Personally I grew up in a Christian culture, so I love to connect my experiences in life with my belief in God. So when I fail I hold on to the hope I have in God's word while taking the required action to get me back up.

Personal coaching will help you get over any negative feelings you have about yourself or others who hurt you in the past. You will also learn how to deal with guilt, shame and anger, allowing you to start living your life again with no regrets!

If there is one thing most people want more than anything else, it's happiness but they don't know what causes their unhappiness or why sometimes they can't find happiness even when their lives are good overall.

Forgiving yourself for something terrible that happened is the key because if we don't learn how to do this, you are not giving yourself a chance to be loved. Forgiveness is actually for you and not necessarily the other person.