When you are down in the dumps, it can be hard to see a way out. You might feel like giving up on your goals and dreams, because of setbacks that seem insurmountable. It is very difficult when dealing with shame.
If you’re feeling stuck or discouraged, this is for you. Read on to learn how you can get back on track using practical tips, to overcome any setback, you currently face, so that you can achieve success again!
It’s almost 13months since the beginning of the outbreak, now a pandemic, that is shaking the world. Many businesses have gone bankrupt, most economies would require years to recover. A lot of people lost their loved ones, many more lost their jobs and there are still people that are hiding right now because there is so much shame, unspeakable guilt and so much fear from the crisis.
Every single person in this world was influenced one way or the other and we all are still being influenced as of today April 13th, 2021. You too may be hiding from the fears of the unknown and insecurity, and just like a small animal will hide in the caverns in the rocks from the prey, we all need to hide from the destruction around us.
In this article, I will share, what you should do to resolve shame, instead of hiding.
No doubt this world and everything we’ve known and have assumed to be normal has been shaken. Amid all this, a question probes my heart, where is your trust? Who do you hold in high esteem to give you the answers that you seek in a time like this?
Stop trusting in mere humans, who have but a breath in their nostrils. Why hold them in esteem. Isaiah 2:22
My point is, when there’s so much terror and so much dread around us, the question of who to trust is important, and the decision of who to hold in high esteem, in these difficult times cannot be taken for granted.
Right now, in Canada where I stay, we are in the third wave and in our 3rd lockdown. This is also true for so many cities in North America and Europe. But instead of hiding from the difficult circumstance, is there something else we can do?
How do you deal with shame and regret?
In a recent article, I talked about walking in the light of God because when you are surrounded with so much darkness that you can barely see, you need a light that has been proven to give clarity to the weak and to the lonely.
While stress, pain, and confusion maybe your current story and that of so many other people around the world today, I want you to be aware that it does not have to stay that way.
I came across an article from Forbes, that was written a few days ago, over the past year there are now about 40 new billionaires who got wealthy fighting COVID-19.
This means during this same time of crisis, some of the wealth was taken away from some people, while many others got it added to them. So, getting over difficulties is no longer about skills, neither is it about being an expert, but the survival of the mind.
This is the time to seek intuition and apply wisdom.
Life is about what you are building. It’s about self-development. It’s about growth. It is believing that you have something to offer the world and paying the price to achieve it. It is the self-discipline and effort you put into what you believe in.
What is sustaining you? What do you believe in? What is shaping your mind? What can you do differently from what you have always done? Instead of hiding from the pain and the difficulty you are facing, decide to learn, unlearn, and relearn.
Get Clarity to Overcome Your Setback.
This is why I love the coaching process. It gives you the confidence you need to step out in your conviction. The answers you seek are within you, but you must be ready to get clarity and follow a roadmap.
Despite everything that you might have gone through, it shall be well with you. And if you can walk in the light, you will stand again. Get clarity to overcome your setback.
So many things in this world have now been ruined, as a result of this pandemic, but who you trust and hold onto, in high esteem will be your source of uplifting?
You also need to be a self-leader in these times, so that you can get the results that you seek. There are so many opportunities right now to make an impact, but if you don’t know how to find an irresistible offer, that meets an urgent need, you will be left in the dark. You will continue in shame, and in hiding, if you don’t know what else is possible.
Whether it is starting a business or getting a job, whatever it is that will make a difference in your life, step out of hiding, get clarity and gain confidence. If you are ready to become distinguished with a clear impact, I believe that you can have a breakthrough and restoration, from your current position.
You may have been dealing with shame for a long time and don’t know how to get rid of it. Right now you feel like no one understands what you are going through, and that makes things worse. You can be free from your shameful situation.
You can move on with your life without the pain, stress, or confusion holding you back anymore. Coaching can help you deal with shame in an effective way so that it doesn’t control your life anymore! Overcome your shameful situation and step out into the happy life you were created to have.